..A World of Nonsense..

Portrait of Chong Lin, 1958

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Love, then hate, or the other way round?

Do you know you started to hate first, or you started knowing how to love first?

It is a revolving question to me, and I don't really know how to answer that. Though at first thought, i chose - hate first.

To me, maybe it's all just about the lack of in-depth understanding of many things I find unnecessary, irritating, annoying, etc in the beginning stage of that thing I dislike;

Just 3 examples of things i used to hate.

Wearing a pair of wet shoes on a rainy day
That obvious fake smile he/she is giving you
Someone don't bothered to reply your sms

Imagine working on an unsettling ground (rocking ship) and facing rather strong sea rains/storms. Everywhere on you is soaked, and you have to make that job delivered.
You dislike him, he dislike you. You both are smiling and waving at each other and saying "See you soon!" How funny is that picture?
Your sms was sent to a phantom.

I think that all that I feel or think, is part of my character, the way I look at things and made a judgement I deem appropriate. Unless I'm more understanding, it's impossible to control unless I force myself to do so, in a straightforward sentence - I am lying to myself.

Talking is easier, just like blogging. I can show others otherwise by portraying myself the way I want or hope others to feel about me, by writing and words. Just ask yourself,

Do you do that?
Are you sure?

Feel all that hate you want. But learn to forgive at the end of that. Do a reflection on yourself, once a while, unless you are those class of people who always thinks that you are the most logical, knowledgeable, smart, understanding, mature or one of the most perfect person. You will realise that

You are no different in behaving the way you don't like others to.

Chongz stepped on your garbage at 10:00 PM